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Old 09-11-2015, 01:09 AM
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She might also feel like she let you down by getting cut (obviously that concept is emotional) so don't beat yourself up. Something like "it would have been cool if we could have shared XYZ, but the most important thing is you ending up in the chapter that fits you the best."

I don't think it's dissing to acknowledge that all chapters of our orgs are very different from each other, and that even if you do share letters, there are some chapters that can feel as "home" as your own chapter, and some where you would feel horribly uncomfortable. That's the reality of national organizations.
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