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Originally Posted by ED123
So I have decided that I will rush this coming spring at the University of Arkansas. But I have a few questions...
First, I don't drink. I love going to parties, but I won't drink when I'm there. Will this be a problem in any way? Will anyone care if I choose not to drink?
Second, I know at least three people who could write a reccomendation letter for me to one fraternity. But I'm not sure if that is the fraternity I want to join. Should I have all three of these people write a letter for me or just one?
Any other advice would be great.
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Let as many guys as you can know that you are interested in rushing. If they're looking for members I'm sure they'll make an effort to introduce you to more brothers in the Chapter. Those guys will probably write you recommendation letters.
Try to brand yourself as you're coming into Recruitment. Be very honest about your flaws, but try and help the brothers look at them optimistically. Don't be cocky or rude. Now is not the time to try and play "hard to get". Keep an open mind.
