[FSUZeta]

I took GoldenAnchor's message as intending to share with you, that your situation is not unique. I hope you take my information for what I intended-information.

I would say yes, getting so drunk that a person throws up on the party bus is reason to ban a non-member from a fraternity. Greek life is under close scrutiny on many college campuses, especially where risk management situations are concerned by both national offices and college administrations. Chapters can lose their charter, and be banned by the college from situations that involve non-members. The RM officer is just thinking of his chapter first, which is what he should do. On top of that, any group has the right to not allow admittance to any non-member for whatever reason. They owe you nothing.Most folks mess up at least once while in college. Hopefully, you have come out of this situation smarter than before.