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Originally Posted by TLLK
I agree. What I read does not resemble the Alpha Phi sisters that I worked with on Panhellenic and that I knew in the early - mid 1980's. The active who was with me for Sisterhood and Preference was the kindest and sweetest sister who also happened to be African American. Based on what I read, I don't believe that she would have been extended a bid today.  |
That's breaks my heart. That's exactly what concerns me. We cut out so many talented, kind and smart people that would bring so much to the table, for the chapter....all because they aren't a 9/10 on our beauty scale? Think of everything the entire chapter stands to miss out on by only viewing people through the scope of beauty. Plus, beauty is one of those things that is purely based on someone's opinion. It has nothing to do with what they bring to the table to the sisterhood. We had sororities like that on our campus, but that's literally ALL that they were known for, besides being hard to deal with, and always coming in last in just about every other category that counted. It got to the point, alot of fraternities just didn't want to work with them anymore. They got tired of dealing with it.
