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Originally Posted by frat123
Should I even bother going to the dinner, because I don't want to be pitied.
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I would NOT go. You have to be honest with yourself here. If they wanted to give you a bid, they would have. I think you'll find yourself being very uncomfortable if you go.
It's already been said but, seriously, this...
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Originally Posted by frat123
I really really really want to join this fraternity. It's tier 1.
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...is NOT a reason to join (or want to join) a fraternity.
I would either accept one of the bids you've already received or look into other fraternities where you might feel comfortable. Your goal should be
"I really really really want to join this fraternity. They're a great group of guys. I feel like they care about me and I can see us building friendships that will last a lifetime."
Good luck!
