Even in some of the smaller Greek Systems I have seen some girls get upset because they pledged a sorority that they wouldn't have normally chosen. some have gotten very bitter and deafiliated or just had a bad time.
Obviously this can be true even if you get the one of your choice, but since you made that choice free and clear you are likely to be less bitter about it.
Resentment and biterness will poison an experience quicker than anything else.
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