THIS 100%!!!! If someone comes to preference, they have a chance, however minute, of getting a bid, so you need to figure it all out by then, or you will risk having someone as a sister who you may not want. Too bad, so sad, but that's the rule.
And again, NONE of this is inclusion. It's a smoke screen to be relevant.
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Originally Posted by SweetHomeStL
Agreed! How about this for a more realistic example using those numbers?
So it is just hard for me to understand why we can’t have common courtesy of putting legacies on your 1st bid list. If the chapter doesn’t vibe with the girl, don’t have her at your Preference party at all.
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