Oh, sweet girl. The first thing I would do is edit you post to remove the name of the organization and your school. It’s weird. Things on the internet can live forever. If things really turn around for you within your chapter, you don’t want people to be able to come back and identify who you are and hold your previous statements against you—like when you are nominated for President of your chapter.
Groups are what you make of them. Find one friend—just one girl that you click with in your group. Promise yourself that you will say nothing negative about xyz in all your conversations with her. Then start applying that same rule to your interactions with all of your interactions with your sisters. Negativity is toxic. Positivity is healing. Perhaps you can be the agent of change within your chapter—but start with just one sister. Then, start creating your own events. Invite a few sisters you want to know for a game night, cookie making, etc. You really determine your own happiness within a chapter.
If you really hate all of your sisters, get to know some of the alumnae. Once again, don’t say anything negative about the chapter, just get to know them. This is the group you will be a part of for the rest of your life.
Start volunteering with your national philanthropy.
Get on a committee within your chapter, work hard and only say good things about it. You will see a change.
You could do the above things or you could terminate your membership. Great leaders take what they have and then figure out how to be agents of change themselves. It often starts with changing their own outlook. This could be you.
Best wishes for a wonderful year.
