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FSUZeta, I think we are on the same wavelength. I was thinking that a mom would just interrupt with the sister bonding. Since I will be there two days before bid day, I thought I would leave her three envelopes/packages. As I will be there on sisterhood day, I think I may have a feel for how things are going.
If she is still in the mix for Theta I will have a sweet note along with my favorite oversized letter sweatshirt that has been hidden in the drawer for many a year--she loves unique "vintage" things. If she does not go Theta, I will have another note congratulating her on being her own person and send a gift via the local greek store. If she decides not to bid--or she is dropped--I will have a third letter affirming who she is as a person. I figure this way she can know she is loved, but she won't be divided on that day.
I love all you grounded women--and men. Thank you for the advice. Now I need to go and dig through my jewelry box to see what special pieces I might have hidden in there...
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