[DubaiSis]

I'm sorry that it has continued to suck. Negative sorority stereotypes exist for a reason, and while most do not behave that way, you may really have found yourself a dud.

Before resigning your membership, would you just go above your chapter leadership and talk to an advisor? If you are not the only person who is experiencing this, as you stated, then this toxic behavior needs to be addressed. Among possible scenarios is they might let you take alumna status instead of just resigning. Now, I wouldn't go in expecting this, but if at all possible you could get the benefits of lifetime membership without having to deal with the bitchy day to day stuff in your specific chapter right now. Or you could discover that this problem is really a band-aid that needs to be pulled and some girls end up in front of standards or removed from the chapter. Or you could find out that this bitchy behavior is inherent in your local structure, but this is the least likely of all the scenarios. You've made a lifetime commitment to your sorority; it's worth the effort to find a solution beyond just quitting.