I didn't get my first choice for Big Sis, but she turned out to be a wonderful mentor and friend. I was told that my first choice "was needed more by another pledge" and looking back on that I can agree. Not sure how I would have handled being a twin...we never had to deal with that in my chapter when I was a member. My advise would be to develop you relationship with your Big one-on-one and not dependent on equal twin relationships.
Were we besties for life? No, but 40+ years later we keep in touch and I treasure our relationship.
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