[PhilTau]

Okay - when I said "now is the time to call in all favors with your friends" above I meant it metaphorically not literally. Of course knowing how to tactfully assert influence is an important leadership skill that may be present innately or learned. I do suspect that the word, friend, is being tossed around casually and many friends are really just casual acquaintances. But I maintain that true, long-time friends can and should be counted upon to help at a time when that help is really needed. Nevertheless, depending on the nuances of a given situation, all the above advice is pertinent.