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Originally Posted by choabet
My daughter has lined up 2 recs per house, but is fortunate to have additional ladies asking to help her.
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Since you have been fortunate enough to find all the help you need, if there are some who know your daughter more personally than others, I would use those. The others you might say thank you but you don't want to take their time, or whatever polite decline is appropriate. If you have 3 close women who are all part of the same sorority and they would be hurt to be denied the opportunity, then I wouldn't rescind the ask. But some women are asked to write a LOT of recs, so if you take one off their to-do list, they may be appreciative.