[Kevin]

Suck it up. If you resign from one and join another, if the fraternity you're joining accepts you, they'll be violating the rules. If you lie to them, you will be joining on a lie. Every single NIC group I know of does not allow you to join even after you have resigned from another organization once you've been initiated. The chapter at your new school doesn't have to affiliate with you in all likelihood, so maybe go join the Key Club. Especially if the chapter at your school already knows you've been initiated, your plans of resigning from one fraternity to join another are likely to result in you having no fraternity whatsoever.

My advice is to get into contact with your chapter advisers. If you are unsatisfied with this group, the advisers are also damn sure unsatisfied. Work with your advisers to improve the chapter. Make the best of your not-so-ideal situation. Or join the Key Club. Up to you.