Just my first impression - if you go by a nickname that represents you r Theatre org, and also go by "the future Mrs J", the girls might not see you as your own person.
Try presenting yourself as "Sue" or whatever your real name is. When rushing, play up yourself, not your nickname, not your engaged status, or anything like that. It seems like people already know that stuff about you.
So think about who YOU are and how you can contribute to the sisterhood with whom you are pursuing membership.
Just my opinion, and good luck!
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