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Old 06-03-2016, 05:56 PM
SimplyMe SimplyMe is offline
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Originally Posted by mgandil View Post
I'm definetely going to say what you just wrote. You're right, I am going to blame myself and say I was not ready to take on that commitment. Should I wait until they ask about my old sorority though or bring it up myself?
If she does know you were in another chapter, she shouldn't be bringing that up. The point of recruitment is to get to know you, not to bring up old dirt. Honestly the only reason you should be talking about being in another chapter is if you bring it up.
I know you're worried about this, but honestly the best way to approach this is to put it behind you and put your best foot forward. Let your recruiter fall in love with you and the rest won't matter.
I know girls who dropped and went through again and got the same chapter. I also know girls who dropped and got a totally different chapter you never thought they'd join. The point is you never know how this is going to end up. Keep and open mind and just be you.
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