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You could also find out if any of the sisters are members of other campus organizations and get involved in the ones that are of interest to you. Service organizations, athletic clubs, religious organizations, spirit clubs, etc. When you go to meetings and see familiar faces, you can sit with them and join in on the conversation and planning.
Do you have any classes with any members or other new members? Sit with them. Make plans to study or work on projects with them.
The point is to find things that already interest YOU and then connect with the women in the sorority that share those interests. Most chapters are very diverse with respect to the members' talents and activities. There's someone in there who will have similar goals to you.
I've been around sorority women for many years, and your situation is not uncommon. It takes many people time - sometimes a couple of years - to really find sisters that they connect with on a personal level to hang out with outside of sorority functions. The point is that you can't give up, otherwise everyone else will just write you off. Good luck!
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