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Originally Posted by NYCMS
KSUViolet, she rushed last year at a Big 10 school and was cut by all houses so she re-rushed this fall. I can't tell if she had gotten recs (many people have asked, but she's not answered) and based on recent posts, she didn't get to know any sorority members over the past year so she had no connections for this year.
Here's a link to a thread she posted about whether or not to discuss her first year rushing during this year's rush:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=244101
Here's her post about rushing her freshman year and what happened:
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=243578
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I got some recs for a few houses that I know alumna of, but recs are not a thing at my school. Some girls I rushed with last year told me they got recs to every house on campus and it didn't help them, they still got cut after open house round from those chapters. Some girls I talked to from this past rush told me the same thing of their rec letter experience. The only thing that sometimes helps at my school is being a legacy which I am not unfortunately, since I am the first person in my family whose thought about going Greek.
****Do u have any tips on how to make connections with Greek women at my school?****
Would connections make or break the pnms that get invited back? How do out-of-state women do, who have no connections at their schools get into Greek life?
