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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Yeah, this is going to sound really harsh, but if you're dealing with budget issues of that magnitude, you do not need a wedding.
I tend to feel the same about other rather rude practices such as cash bars/drink tickets. If you're monitoring your guest's drink consumption on that level, you need to elope.
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You have no idea.
There's a family wedding that has featured the following:
- Save the Date TEXTS. Not even a postcard, regular e-mail, or Paperless Post.
- When they decided to change the date, there was no official announcement.
- Kids who were originally asked to be in the wedding party were removed when they realized they couldn't afford the extra plates.
- Invitees received a text (in Prince speak) asking if they were going to come because otherwise they wouldn't send an invite.
- A decision was made that there would be no children at the wedding, which is more than fine. They asked a teenager to babysit...for free, which is NOT fine.
It's just clear that they cannot afford the wedding to which they feel entitled. What's wrong with eloping?
