[rockwallgreek]

Yes, you were disappointed, so was your daughter, but the story gets A LOT better! I pledged (it was 1974) the bottom sorority at my school. Basically, I was from California and knew nothing!!! My chapter actually closed 3 years later. Fast forward a few years and I was a young mom of 4 girls, but working for my fraternity as a New Chapter Development Specialist. Kept doing that. Fast forward a few more years... My four daughters all became my sisters in a very strong chapter! Now, I'm a Province Director. My point is, my collegiate experience was not the best. My alumnae experience, remember this is a lifetime commitment, has been and is the best. Sometimes things are like that.