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I also got my first choice, but did not feel like an integral part of the chapter until the following year. Getting ready for fall recruitment helps a lot with bonding.
And some of us just make friends more slowly. Some of my pledge sisters just blew into the chapter and were in the center of everything right away. It took me time to find the girls I would be closest to. Many of the chapter sisters I'm closest to (to this very morning interacting with on FB twenty years later!) were in pledge classes after mine. I eventually became a very integral part of the chapter, but it took time.
Don't be so quick to throw away three years of fun and sisterhood over what might have been and what will never, ever be. Embrace what you have. So many girls would give their right arm to be in ANY sorority.
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"Let us found a society that shall be kind alike to all and think more of a girl's inner self and character than of her personal appearance." Sarah Ida Shaw
My recruitment story: My sorority membership changed my life.
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