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Old 10-01-2015, 01:01 PM
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Yes, building upon what KSUViolet says...

It is true that at SEC and Texas type recruitments you will be surrounded by girls who were Homecoming Queens, GPAs through the roof, and accomplishments like crazy. However, not everyone will have those qualities.

The issue arises when those high academic, high involvement, been-told-their-whole-lives-how-beautiful-they-are PNMs get to college they often have never faced disappointment or rejection. Many of them expect to have their pick of 18 different sororities. When inevitable cuts happen to these PNMs some do not handle it well.

For them, it's not that they didn't get a bid. It was that they may not have gotten a bid to the one or two houses that they deemed worthy of themselves.

PNMs such as yourself usually fare just fine. Go in with realistic expectations and be open to any chapters that invite you back. Please realize we can only speak in generalities though.. we have no way to know for any specific PNM.

Good luck!
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