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My 18 year old self probably would not have been bothered by a chapter dirty rushing if I had fallen in love with the chapter and wanted to join and was offered a bid. My vindictive self would not have been alright with the dirty rushing if they bid promised me or one of my friends and then the bid did not materialize.
What is your purpose in asking what our opinion is? Do you need advice on how to deal with the summer communication you are engaged in with chapter members and alumnae? Are you concerned with potential negative impact for you if found out by other chapters? Do you want us to advise you on believing (or not) the pretty things the chapter or alums are telling you?
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I live in Fantasyland and I have waterfront property.
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