I don't know about y'all, but I had outstanding friends in high school. And I knew in college that I wanted friends like the ones I had in HS. So I looked to see which sororities reminded me of my best friends from home.
Also, the social aspects of Greek Life are great and all, but you can party even if you're an independent. You are looking for lifelong sisterhood or brotherhood. Watch sisters/brothers talk to each other, and how they act around each other. You will be able to see which chapters have stronger bonds between their members. Also, ask yourself "Are these the girls/guys I want to invite to my wedding?" Because that's what your sisters/brothers should be! If there's not that close bond, it's not worth being Greek.
Most of all, be yourself. Take deep cleansing breaths. If you are really nervous, tell them! The rushers are nervous, too! Trust me! Good luck, and go with your heart.
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"Seek the noblest."
Zeta Love! <3
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