I guess it is safe to assume the OP is talking about a non-NPHC/non-MCGLO/non-LGLO/non-AGLO fraternity. The answer to the question would be different if the OP was talking about NPHC/MCGLO/LGLO/AGLO.
How demeaning to reduce women's responses to "mothering". I guess MysticCat is "fathering" the OP.
Every time I see the thread title, I sing
"I'm going back to college, college, college...I'm going back to college...I don't think so" a la LL Cool J.
