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Old 02-16-2013, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by choabet View Post
My daughter has lined up 2 recs per house, but is fortunate to have additional ladies asking to help her.
Since you have been fortunate enough to find all the help you need, if there are some who know your daughter more personally than others, I would use those. The others you might say thank you but you don't want to take their time, or whatever polite decline is appropriate. If you have 3 close women who are all part of the same sorority and they would be hurt to be denied the opportunity, then I wouldn't rescind the ask. But some women are asked to write a LOT of recs, so if you take one off their to-do list, they may be appreciative.
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