There is a reason we have references and this is one of them. Absolutely send in an "I cannot recommend this girl". The chapter will contact you if they need to. I so agree with Anchor Alumnae. We had an incident last year where a legacy had a glowing reference from an alumna but collegians from her very prestigious HS informed us that she was a bully and then some so we sent a negative reference to override the positive one. Tough decision. Good news is her school had delayed recruitment and by the time January rolled around she had already "outed herself" and we think was asked to leave her university.
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