While all want to entice, apple on a stick, maybe it is time to use the stick!
If they cannot come to meetings or charity events, then they do not need to come to the partys.
Set a number of mandatory events that can be missed or after that, then no social functions.
Let them sit at home on party nights too. If that doesnt work, then why are they even there?
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