HEATHER!! Girl, not for a big-deal event! There's too much external pressure, and internal stress prima facie, let alone adding the nebulous "will he try on my shoes when I'm not looking
" thoughts running through your head! LOL :P
Plus, if you give a damn what your peers think, expect a range of comments from Barb to Andy to worse!
If you don't care, and this all no big deal, I say go for it. Barb got married! My friend is one step away from the chapel!
EXERCISE EXTREME CAUTION, THOUGH.
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Subtlety is the key ;o)