That's so sad; I'm really sorry to hear that
Dani, how many fraternities that aren't on the Hill are still around? I know FIJI is gone (they had a gorgeous house). How about Phi Delta Theta and Pi Kappa Phi and Pi Lambda Phi?
I always liked the off campus houses much better; they have real personality and were more like you would picture a fraternity house to be. The houses on the Hill are pretty much just sterile dorms IMO.