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Originally Posted by greekdee
(In all honesty, there may be times when a PNM doesn't want their legacy connection known for other reasons! Though fraternity recruitment is different because the men aren't restricted by quota and RFM, I know someone whose sons don't want their legacy status known because the chapter at their school has such a bad rep -- always on probation, in trouble with local and school authorities and exisiting under the threat of being kicked off campus. They're afraid their options would be limited by being legacies. I really don't know, though, if fraternities care that someone is a legacy to another chapter and if it weighs on their decision to extend invites...maybe some fraternity members can offer some insight on that. )
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My brother didn't want his legacy status known, because he wanted to know that he was invited to join the fraternity on his own merit. In fact, he looked at more than one chapter, and it just happened that the one that was the best fit for him was also his legacy group.
