[Rare serious RC post in this thread]
Look, most of us can't fathom being in an abusive relationship, and most of us want the serious feel-goods of "I WOULD NEVER ALLOW _______" ... but that's part of the problem of spousal (mostly male-on-female) abuse: a person doesn't want to be there, doesn't even know they are there, until it's far too late.
I'll judge all of you for nearly everything, but it's very difficult - if not impossible - to judge a person for being battered in a relationship. It's just so hard, and it's never the victim's fault.
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