someone asked this question before, ZetaLuvBunny.
http://130.94.21.174/gcforums/showth...&threadid=1656
I think most of us concluded that you should wear your bf's lavalier around your neck and find a sorority bracelet/charm bracelet to wear. It's really a matter of opinion. I guess some girls think of it as denying their sorority, which I don't think is the case.