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My advice to you would be see if the one you rejected is still accepting members and see if they would consider accepting you belatedly. I think you've gotten the picture from the posts above that "I'm too good for most of the sororities on my campus" just doesn't fly.
Maybe there was a valid reason for not putting that house on your pref card, but if it was popularity, colors, shape of the letters, there was a girl there with red hair and I hate that, I'd do some real soul-searching and get over it. 25% of a chapter is made of it's new members. There was a reason they wanted you, and being a part of a sorority is such a great thing that being in a less than the top tier house is still worth it. Plus, as stated above, if they need a little push in social standing, you can always help improve that once you're in.
Good luck. I hope you can come to terms with your situation soon because if it's a fairly competitive school, going through FR again probably won't garner you better results.
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