Re your saying it isn't super competitive -
You rushed as a sophomore (not unusual) and were cut from four groups. You only had one left which you didn't like and so you dropped out of rush entirely. That is competitive enough.
In the two years between then and now, have you gotten to know members of the Greek community? Have you developed close friendships with any sorority members?
As Titchou said, and she is right, you won't know unless you try, but if you haven't done anything outside of a formal rush situation to get to know Greek members, don't be surprised if people question your motives.
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