Quote:
Originally Posted by elip...sis
For those that I know and myself, our new member period was VASTLY different than our active membership treatment.
|
Then you need to sit down and write a letter to your former sorority that says:
Dear XYZ:
I am a former member of your sorority. I disaffiliated because the new member program did not adequately prepare me for membership. My NM period was filled with {insert fun stuff here} and nothing else. Once I was initiated, it was all {insert crap here} which I was completely shielded from as a NM.
In my opinion NM period should be less fun and more work and reality.
You'll find those sentiments all over this board. Shortened and easier pledge periods have not worked for our organizations. But that should be your focus, not changing the rules so you can get a bid from another NPC who does the same thing.