Signed_up_user, most of the alumnae who participate in Greek Chat are involved in supporting collegiate chapters as advisors, during recruitment, etc. They have current knowledge of how things work. Therefore, I would not discount the advice you've been given, even though it some of it may be contrary to what you're hoping to hear.
Greek membership is for life, and alumnae support is crucial in sustaining these organizations and supporting the current collegiate membership.
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