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Originally Posted by lovespink88

I could have gone one way or another with kids, honestly. And technically there ARE kids invited to my wedding, but they are me and fiance's immediate cousins--not parents' cousins' kids. The majority of the "kids" are high school and college aged. As a matter of fact, I think there's just one grade school aged cousin.

We ended up saying no kids to extended family after we realized it would have been like 20 more people. And not all of them are "young enough" for the kids menu, mind you, so we'd paying for the regular plates. Just doing a quick estimation that could have been EASILY $1200-1500 more!

And by process of elimination, we ended up with no flower girl or ring bearer, lol Again, this was something me and my fiance could have gone either way on.

See when I think of "no kids," I don't think of high school or college.

I think of the kind who aren't old enough to really appreciate the event, that aren't going to be able to entertain themselves, and should probably be left at home with a sitter. Like, younger than that.