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Old 08-28-2019, 05:20 PM
33girl 33girl is offline
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Greeks and non Greeks date all the time. And no you don’t become a little sister or little brother just by dating someone (LSs and LBs are actually not allowed any longer but that’s another thread)

I don’t think you understand what a “private” party is. It just means there’s a guest list. You don’t have to be Greek to go there, just know someone in the fraternity who will put you on the list.

If fraternity ABC and sorority XYZ are having a mixer or swap, non Greeks cannot attend - but neither can members of sorority EFG or fraternity MNO. A mixer is a party just for those two groups.

If Greek membership is still something you want, you’re really focusing on all the wrong things. Get to know fraternity members in your classes and extracurriculars. And for the love of all that’s holy, talk about something other than parties.
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