[ETA: At the risk of sounding insensitive, why is there so much concern over unhappy PNMs?[/QUOTE]
Nobody likes to see people be torn up, especially good people who deserve better. I've spoken before of how horrible it was when I had to sit in the room at Mississippi State where the girls got their returns and so many were cut by groups they wanted or groups that their older friends were in or their fellow PNMs were still being invited back to.
Rejection of any kind is devastating.
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