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We had lots of sisters who were involved in the music program and also in theater. Usually we went to their recitals/plays as a group. This is one of the best times to bring along a nonmember to hang out.
I'll just say this - make friends with the person first. I don't mean facebook friends, I mean don't talk to someone in class one day and invite them to a rush event the next. Take time to build a real relationship. Ideally, you want it to get to the point where the person likes and feels comfy with you and your other friends (who happen to be your brothers) so much so that THEY ask YOU "how do I pledge you guys?"
Get used to talking to all different kinds of people, but don't look at everyone just as a rush prospect...because they're not. Don't ever think you've "wasted time" on someone if they don't end up pledging...you made a friend, and that's never bad. Some friends will fit in with your brothers and some won't.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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