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Originally Posted by mountainmama
I got so screwed over during rush this year. I rushed as a sophomore with so many friends in one house that I wanted to be in so badly. I got to pref round and my best friends have told me that everyone ranked me very high and they basically thought it was a guarantee I would end up there.
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Your friends could have been 100% honest and you still could have been on the 2nd Bid List and they were full by the time they got to you.
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What would you say to a friend who was in your position? Even if you knew her chances were so-so, would you have the heart to tell her it wasn’t going to happen? Or, after the fact would you tell her that you heard xy and z were reasons some didn’t want her? Or would you act surprised and shocked? (Which they may be! But a handful of friends don’t make out the bid list.)
If you want to be Greek, this is your chance. But don’t waste the time of the chapter that gave you a bid if you aren’t willing to embrace them and let this go.