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Originally Posted by adpialum1

I really need some help in this field!! This process is not easy! I regret not getting initiated 25 years ago, which was my fault, did not make my grades. Now that I am older and have the potential opportunity to become initiated into the sorority that I had originally pledged in college, they are turning their back on me. Not very "sisterly" in my opinion. I lost touch with everyone for 25 years and have missed them terribly. Should I continue to become a member or seek another?

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Originally Posted by adpialum1

I have a question about alums at initiation. Can or can we not participate? I was planning to assist in the next coming weeks with a chapter near my home and have been told that only chapter advisors can help. Is this true? We had lots of alums at mine 25 years ago.