To quote Dan Savage: DTMFA. (Dump The Mother F$#%*r Already)
If you give in to him on this issue, he will find something else to be jealous and controlling about - the people you’re doing a group project with in class, the girls you get an apartment with, the guy you occasionally play tennis with. You are being emotionally abused. I can’t stress this enough.
I would also talk to his ex (who told you this “groupie” garbage? Your boyfriend?) and get the real scoop because obviously this is how he thinks a relationship should be.
If his life is in the shitter and going nowhere, it’s up to HIM to improve it - not to make you feel sad and guilty because your life is going somewhere.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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