On second thought, I'm conflicted about this.
Part of me really wants to be open minded and think that a man isn't gay just because he wants his bum stimulated by a woman in a strap on.
But the majority of me feels that if your man WILL have that done, then he'd probably let a man do it too. Especially if that man was hot like me.
Luckily, I'm a virgin and don't engage in any of that.