About how big was the chapter? I'm confused because you say "things must be different at bigger schools" and if you were in a smaller chapter/group I would think you'd have gotten more exposure to the majority of the chapter before initiation.
I'm also assuming you aren't talking about one of the historically Jewish groups because a quick Google mentions that about both of them. This isn't trying to fire questions or call you out, I just don't get some parts of your post.
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