I had leadership roles in other campus organizations and was never more than "Assistant Such and Such" in my sorority. This did not affect my commitment or activity in my sorority in any way. I lived with my sisters and participated fully in all chapter activities. And yes, I was their bridesmaid and they were mine.
Sometimes what an individual member brings to the sorority is her activity outside it. This was true of many of my sisters. There are many different ways to live your creed!
ETA: I see you are a Chi Omega! Please take a look at our Six Purposes!
- Friendship
- High Standards of Personnel
- Sincere Learning and Creditable Scholarship
- Career Development
- Participation in Campus Activities
- Community Service