Jen, for many people, it's not just the expulsion. The moms/grandmothers/sisters have often shown them the pins, introduced their sisters to them, sung them the songs, etc., for many years. I did all that with my daughters and most of y'all know that none even went to a school with my sorority. Still, it would have been nice to share the bond with one of the nine.
33, agreed. This happened to my niece back in 2005--she was an in-house legacy to one group and probably would have fit better in others, yet she was cut to 2 groups right off.
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