I have written literally hundreds of recs... some girls I liked better than others and some I didn't know well at all. I have written exactly ONE "no" rec, and I meant it. She deserved it for a host of reasons and no way on earth would I have wanted her wearing my letters. She pledged another house (no idea if my rec had anything to do with my house cutting her), had MAJOR issues and ended up leaving the school completely by spring semester. When you know, you know...
