[33girl]

Maybe you're at a particularly superficial campus, but all I have to say is that I know plenty of fraternity men who most certainly were not chosen for their looks or ability to win over girls. You will never know until you try.

I do recommend counseling, along with getting involved with volunteering for a cause that moves you, whether it's on campus or off.
When you're thinking about other people you have a lot less time to think about yourself.

You need to just get out of your own way and not obsess over what a few shallow and nasty girls have said.